12 Reasons Why Men Really Like Watching Porn

Why do men like watching porns? Do they just simply enjoy seeing any kind of naked girls being fucked, moaning and screaming when they reaching orgasm? Or are the men really addicted by sex? Does it hurt the relationship?

With the internet now is such a common thing of our everyday lives and easy to access with only a couple of clicks on any gadgets, porn is really available everywhere and anytime for the netter's pleasurement.

And the biggest consumers of the porn sites is men! Every women would accidentally find porn collections in her man's phone or get him secretly or even openly watching porn even after they doing sex. Some guy would seem to be uncomfortable being caught watching porn, while others would just quibble that it's only for fun or even teasing his partner by saying that the girls on the screen are hotter and attractive! There's often hard debates happened between the couples.

Although there're women who have a thinking that when their man watching porn, there has no something to do with them, as they think it's normal, but it's undeniable that there're still many women who might think that her partner watching porn is a sign that he isn't happy with them, feels that there's something wrong with her. The sentimentil feelings such as they're not being attractive enough, not good enough in bed or that his partner doesn't love them anymore would come to their mind. Some women would guess an occasional look seems doesn't hurt, but if he seems to be on the computer all the time for porn, it would rise questionable thinking. Why does he need to do this?

The Common Reasons Why Men Into Pornographic

While any of these could be true, that men look at porn as a sign that he's not satisfied enough with his sex partner, but it's not usually the real reasons, there's more complex reasons. So why do most men really like porn? Cited from several sources, here are the common reasons:

1. For men, watching porn represents self-soothing, a way to take a break from daily hassles by masturbating. Tired for works/schools every hours a day, they would intensely yearn the weekend or to back home early for that ritual :-)

2. Men enjoy sexual excitement. Porn can deliver it when the urge for some exitement come.

3. They like sexual variety and porn has limitless selection to choose from. They can chose to see ebony girl, a slimmy blonde, maid theme, sex in the beach sand and many more.

4. With porn, the men are able to explore fantasies that their partner would reject. The fantasy forms could be from naughty to nasty scenes which is not every women would like to engage in. For example, in real life, a husband would be feel reluctant to ask his slightly shy wife to do sex in the balcony or moaning loudly while being fucked. In porn world, the girls can do anything as the guy want and the pornstars will always appear to really enjoy it.

5. There are moments where adrenaline is suddenly in its peak, the guys would chose to watch a porn and jerking off for letting out the strong pressures.

6. The actual world has a lot of stress and uncertainty. The world of porn is predictable and controllable.

7. Even when the sexual partner is available and interested for sex most of the time, there are always those times when the guy are really getting the full of lust but his partner is feeling tired at the time. A quick release by clicking some porn scenes will be an alternative impingement.

8. Porn is entertainment, it's like playing video games, watching music consert, etc.

9. Though the wife are so beautiful, and he really loves her, but there would be a level/moments where he sees her to be not arousing enough. In his eyes they would be just a kind of motherly wives or a woman with suit (if she's an office woman). The husband would want another women to fullfill his fantasies, and of course he will easily go wild with a sexier, more attractive woman or a cute Asian girl or even he need to see a woman with a horsewhip in her hand!

10. In above case, the man might need some extra boosters to get him turn on, one of them is by watching another hotter woman in the screen first before the real sexual activity with his partner.

11. In the modern world where all are so busy with work and family, a pornographic affair may seem like some small comfort for those who are feel broken off and lonely.

12. Pornography is like fast food, it's fast served in front of you in seconds. All aspects is speeded up now, everyone need everything instantly, fresh and hot, and online porn can handle it.

Porn Hurts The Relationship

Clearly, men and women differ about pornography's meaning. Women often self-soothe by taking hot baths, chit chats or shopping. For most men, porn represents self-soothing, they like excitement, sexual variety, looking porns as stimulant, etc.

But, in fact watching porn negatively will affect the man watching it, as it gradually does to his partner. For others it would create anger and distance in the relationship.

For many its still easier to have regular sex with their partner and let their minds and fantasies run wild with the helps of online porn. Some others, finding themselves become obsessed by pornographics. It's discovered a significant amount of men who are struggling with internet porn and that his behaviour has been wrecking the relationship with their partner.

If men's watching porn habit is addressed as a cheating and neglecting and at the other side the man himself doesn't give any good reason why he appears to more enjoy porns than the real sex activities with his women, at this level, the couple would experience where the negative effect of porn can begin to be seen.

Pornographic is so much more complicated than the people think. For the couple, the man should be looking for his partner, not the porn. Understanding the negative effects of watching porn and doing something about it is so much more important than knowing the reasons.